Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Thu, 2009-09-17 20:36
Psychic Margaret Ruth answered a reader's question about how to finally experience really great, long lasting relationships.
Margaret: First of all thanks for the great advice! I like reading your blog and your postings here a lot! So I had a question about friendship. I see people with lifelong friends and friends that have been around forever, but I have never experienced that. So I'm wondering: how I can make my relationships with friends more permanent? Thanks - C.C. Salt Lake City, UT
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Mon, 2009-06-29 20:24
Many of the questions I get about romantic and dating relationships is the one where a person keeps finding him or herself repeating a not so happy dating pattern, over and over again. Many people I work with can see they keep dating or falling in love with a variation of the same problem, but they do not know how to stop the pattern. People ask, How do I stop this repetitive, destructive pattern? Often people tried very hard to avoid the problems from the past relationships, but the same issues came up again.
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Fri, 2009-02-06 21:56
By Margaret Ruth www.margaretruth.com
Experience from my professional psychic practice, spanning thousands of client interviews, and being Radio From Hell’s Love Psychic, live every Friday morning these last seven years, has led me to become quite snippy over the amount of ludicrous relationship mythology that continues to operate in our culture.
”Hello Margaret; I don't know if you remember me but I'm one of the soldiers that deployed from Salt Lake in Feb 2003 and I got a reading before I went. There were 3 main points to my reading: 1) That the answer to the deployment was that I was leaving on a Desert Trip and the it would begin or I would be given word of it in 1 day/week/month. You also said that I would be very frustrated at not "being in battle". I found that very funny. 2) That I would return in 8 something, I figured on months from when we left, weeks were too soon. 3) After my questions were answered, you had a long talk with me about my family relations because there was something about a close relationship that needed to be addressed. We then talked about my son who was distant from me due to a legal battle with his mother. You strongly advised me to drop all issues and ego problems and just go and start over. You were very adamant that the lessons I was trying to teach him were not important now. Just go and start over.
The next week, we received word that we were going to be deployed. During the first phase of the deployment, we spent 3 months at a fort, waiting to go. We watched the "whole war" on CNN. We were very frustrated to be deployed but missed the war. During these months, I did spend time with my son, at least on the phone and just prior to my leaving Utah. I wish I would have spent more. I didn't know what the 8 was for in the reading. Eight months after I left home, on October 21 2003, my son died. I came home, for just 2 weeks. I want to thank you because in my arrogance, I might not have taken care of the important things in my life prior to leaving the country. At least we said our goodbyes face to face and I was able to tell him that I loved him no matter what. Thanks for your help.” -B.E.
“I hope you post this letter because I want others to see how on-the-money you were with me and how much your advice helped not only me, but others that I could pass it on to. In helping me, you have helped at LEAST 10 other people. That is an amazing feat, and something you should take great pride in!” -M.L.
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