There were some great questions about how fear and conflict keep people from having a fulfilling, expansive life experience. The quick answer is to say reading Superconscious Relationships and trying some of the exercises can help! We also discuss ther ideas around this important topic.
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Tue, 2011-08-09 13:11
Hey Margaret Ruth, I was wondering if you have any insight... I am in a real funk lately and having a hard time getting out of it. I am hanging on to stupid sh*t and letting bother me. IE Someone bit my head off on Sunday for something that I was joking about. I know they were just probably having a bad day nothing to do with me. But it is staying with me and I can't shake it. - Sandy
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Sat, 2010-10-16 13:05
This is an excerpt from Superconscious Relationships: The Simple Psychic Truths, written by me (If you are in the SLC area, you can also pick it up such as the county library and at Golden Braid Bookstore). In the book, we talk about the three things to do in authentic, rewarding relationships. Here is the beginning of the chapter that discusses Thing 1. - MR
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Sat, 2009-05-30 19:22
I was just reading your blog about self-awareness and communication. Are there some more specific "homework" type things I can do? I need a lot of work. I have been in counseling for awhile and feel stuck. I am hoping to come get a couples reading sometime! I love reading your posts. You have an excellent way of explaining things! Thanks for your info!
"Hi Margaret! I came to see you after I was laid off in April. I knew that I was facing the perfect opportunity to really focus my energy where my passions are but was scared to let myself do it. You, of course, knew this before I did! You asked me "What are you so afraid of?" the question cut to my core. I almost started crying. I don't know what I was so afraid of but it was true that I was afraid and my fear was holding me back.
Then you asked about the area that I really didn't want to talk about, my relationship. My partner and I had been going through rough times for several years and I couldn't see any blue skies. I was about to leave him, if he didn't leave me first. We were both miserable and taking it out on each other. You turned over the cards and looked me and said "You're mothering an adult." I couldn't do anything but nod, because again you hit the nail right on the head and was holding back tears. You told me about the 50/50 rule (I think that's what you called it). That his problems were his and mine were mine and the little song you taught me (his, his, his, mine, mine, mine) has helped me through many distressing times since!
My partner and I still argue sometimes but I have definitely been able to back of and let him take care of his own problems. The amazing transformation that has happened has saved our relationship! I now respect him as an adult and he has been able to step up and take control of his half of our lives and company! Our business has been flourishing and we have a few very exciting project underway including on that is much bigger than could have hoped this soon! Thanks again! Your wisdom is invaluable! “ –A.Y.
“I had a mini reading from you on the radio. It was an exhilarating experience. You had me pin-pointed exactly. You told me it would be around 6 months or so before I would be ready to date and I should just focus on myself and college. And so I did and around 6 months later I was getting a few guys asking me out and I was actually ready to date again. It was a great experience, and I need to come in again and see what the future holds! Thanks Margaret Ruth.” - S.H.
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