Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Thu, 2009-09-17 19:36
Psychic Margaret Ruth answered a reader's question about how to finally experience really great, long lasting relationships.
Margaret: First of all thanks for the great advice! I like reading your blog and your postings here a lot! So I had a question about friendship. I see people with lifelong friends and friends that have been around forever, but I have never experienced that. So I'm wondering: how I can make my relationships with friends more permanent? Thanks - C.C. Salt Lake City, UT
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Wed, 2009-09-16 23:55
Dearest Margaret, My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago because he is moving back to his country, Argentina. I feel that I love him and therefore I need to let him go do what he needs to do in his life.My problem is that there are times when I feel I need him and miss him so much that I lose this balance of surrender; sometimes I am overwhelmed with my emotions and miss him terribly and this causes an ache and sadness in my life. My question is how do I deal with the sadness of his absence in my life?
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Fri, 2009-05-29 16:21
Hi Margaret Ruth,I feel really confused. I just recently broke up with a long term boyfriend (one that I knew would not be one I was going to keep). Two weekends ago though I was out and I looked over at the bartender and realized I knew him from years ago. We used to work together. So I went over and asked if it was him. Jerik grabbed my hand, held it the whole time, and we talked and caught up for a while. There was instant chemistry and my heart had a tug I haven't felt for a long time.
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Wed, 2009-04-22 21:18
By Margaret Ruth
This week, I met with a wonderful young man who wanted to talk about falling in love one day. It was a tough subject for him. He was brought up in very typical circumstances and had therefore developed a belief that relationships are difficult, imperfect, full of compromises and require a bit of work to maintain. His past experiences had verified these beliefs and he was very good at criticizing himself over what appeared to be mistakes.
“I called in to the radio to get a reading in February. You said that I was going to meet a future mate by the end of the year. When I met this guy it would instantly work between us and that you saw me changing jobs and that we would be living in a house together after the holidays. I pretty much thought you were full of crap. I had left an abusive relationship, was raising my 2 kids by myself and didn't trust men as far as I could throw them (and I have a bad back)! On top of that I worked for the State; you would have to be an idiot to quit a job like that!! You insisted that this is what you saw and that I'd better promise to invite you to the wedding.
The next week I went to the station to get a face to face reading and prove that you were wrong. You gave me the exact reading!! Actually you elaborated a little more on the description of the mystery guy. You just kept saying over and over that he would be the biggest guy I'd ever met and definitely the nicest and we would meet through friends at a party or celebration of some kind.
Fast Forward 6 Months: LET THE WEIRDNESS BEGIN! I was offered a job that paid me more money that the government so I figured it was at least a bit of an improvement. Wait..didn't that psychic say something about me changing jobs? Through friends from that job, I met a man at a get-together. I knew I was in love with him three days later. We, to this day, have never been apart for 24 hours since we met. We are happily living in a big house in the burbs with OUR 2 kids and oh, yeah did I mention that he is the NICEST, sweetest, funniest, most intelligent man that I've ever met, and that he's SIX FOOT SIX which definitively takes it for biggest man I'd ever met!!
I'd say you pretty much nailed the whole thing right on down the line. So, that's my story and I'm sticking with it. Thanks for opening my eyes to the possibility of things. I don't think that I would have been as open to anything that was in my reading if I had not heard them from you first.” -M.H.
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