Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Thu, 2009-09-17 20:36
Psychic Margaret Ruth answered a reader's question about how to finally experience really great, long lasting relationships.
Margaret: First of all thanks for the great advice! I like reading your blog and your postings here a lot! So I had a question about friendship. I see people with lifelong friends and friends that have been around forever, but I have never experienced that. So I'm wondering: how I can make my relationships with friends more permanent? Thanks - C.C. Salt Lake City, UT
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Thu, 2009-09-17 00:55
Dearest Margaret, My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago because he is moving back to his country, Argentina. I feel that I love him and therefore I need to let him go do what he needs to do in his life.My problem is that there are times when I feel I need him and miss him so much that I lose this balance of surrender; sometimes I am overwhelmed with my emotions and miss him terribly and this causes an ache and sadness in my life. My question is how do I deal with the sadness of his absence in my life?
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Fri, 2009-05-29 17:21
Hi Margaret Ruth,I feel really confused. I just recently broke up with a long term boyfriend (one that I knew would not be one I was going to keep). Two weekends ago though I was out and I looked over at the bartender and realized I knew him from years ago. We used to work together. So I went over and asked if it was him. Jerik grabbed my hand, held it the whole time, and we talked and caught up for a while. There was instant chemistry and my heart had a tug I haven't felt for a long time.
Submitted by Margaret Ruth on Wed, 2009-04-22 22:18
By Margaret Ruth
This week, I met with a wonderful young man who wanted to talk about falling in love one day. It was a tough subject for him. He was brought up in very typical circumstances and had therefore developed a belief that relationships are difficult, imperfect, full of compromises and require a bit of work to maintain. His past experiences had verified these beliefs and he was very good at criticizing himself over what appeared to be mistakes.
Hey Margaret Ruth. I just wanted to say thank you for changing my life completely. A couple years ago I talked to you on the painful circle just after my husband had cheated on me and tried to claim our unborn daughter wasn't his, and left me 2 months pregnant. You told me you saw me going back to him but always wondering if he was faithful etc..unless I worked on myself and figured out who I really am. I took your advice and went through some counseling and realized how much better off I am without him. and now my girls and I are completely happy and free of him, and all his affairs. It's amazing to me how much your saying that I need to be 100% happy and healthy with myself before beginning a relationship helped me. I just recently started seeing an amazing man and it's a completely different feeling than anything I ever had with my ex-husband because we are both in a good place in our lives. You really made me open my eyes and helped me through an amazingly harsh time of my life. Thank You so much!! I will forever be in your debt! You are an amazing woman and thank you for what you do.
“Dear MR~I was in to see you last week. IT was so enlightening. You told me things that I could DO, not just identify a problem, and that is more than most therapists can do!” -J.V.
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