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July 2009

The Law of Even Energy Exchange

If you begin by sacrificing yourself to those you love, you will end by hating those to whom you have sacrificed yourself -- George Bernard Shaw

What happens in the afterlife?

What happens in the afterlife? People are always curious as to what happens when we or loved ones pass away – Sam

If I could only pick one thing to convey about what happens after death is that the after life experience is utterly and completely unique to the individual. There is no one common thing that all spirits do or common place they go once the body is done.

Reading Male/Male, Female/Female, or Female/Male Couples is Not That Different

You usually answer relationship questions without breaking down specific recommendations for male/male, female/female or female/male combinations. I think it would be interesting to see how advice might be different for these. What do you think about doing that sometimes? – C I think I would be very interested in seeing that too, and I am smiling as I type that. One reason for my interest is that I am gender stupid. I mean it. I can read personality really, really well (am damn accurate is what I am saying), but cannot usually tell the gender.

How Do You Know You Have Outgrown a Friendship

How do you know when you have outgrown a friendship? I have a friendship that is really hurting me.

Is Moving for Her Stand-up Comic Career a Good Thing?

I am moving to California soon, so can you give me any advice on how I can be most successful out there? Successful to me equals happy and hopefully with as much money as I need. I'm a stand-up comic and I wanna know if pursuing comedy out there will be beneficial to me or not. – Mel

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One Easy Way to Find Your Center

We new age, mystic types are always going on about becoming centered or feeling centered. Anyone who is under the influence of anxiety, fear, and depression will tell us that this is an impossible task – this Feeling Centered business. However, even if you have not attained perfect inner harmony, there is something to be gained from finding out what is going on with you at your core. This is a simple meditation and visualization exercise that can help you start becoming more aware of what is going on inside you.