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April 2009

The Four Not-Good-for-Anyone Effects of Worry

By Margaret Ruth Many people were taught that to shower the people you love with love, you shower them with worry, -- to show them you care. And I do think that many of us will admit to worrying about our loved ones at one time or another. Then there are those who habitually worry about others, and themselves, as a way of life.

Three Ways to Understand Dream Symbols

By Margaret Ruth

A reader asked: “Can you tell me what a burning tree signifies in a dream?”

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Four Symptoms of Wonderful Relationships

By Margaret Ruth

This week, I met with a wonderful young man who wanted to talk about falling in love one day. It was a tough subject for him. He was brought up in very typical circumstances and had therefore developed a belief that relationships are difficult, imperfect, full of compromises and require a bit of work to maintain. His past experiences had verified these beliefs and he was very good at criticizing himself over what appeared to be mistakes.

How Can I Trust Myself in Dating Ever Again?

gup024Dear Ms. Ruth. Sorry I am not one for formalities; but the heading just sounded right! LOL. I am actually wondering if/when I will be able to actually “see” the guys I’m interested in for who they are?

I dated a guy for three years when I found out that He was a porn addicted transvestite.